If it is the Almighty God your are wanting to serve, He comes first. You are an adult and you make your own choices. Listen to your heart and God will lead you.
Only the guidance from the Holy Ghost can help them understand it.
2 Peter 1:20-21 Knowing this first, that no prophecy of the scripture is of any private interpretation.
21 For the prophecy came not in old time by the will of man: but holy men of God spake as they were moved by the Holy...
We are prepared to be hated by those who are non believers.
Matthew 10:22And ye shall be hated of all men for my name's sake: but he that endureth to the end shall be saved.
But the trouble remains in the hearts of the non believers, not the believers.