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<blockquote data-quote="Samantha" data-source="post: 2199711" data-attributes="member: 209999">(This is from last night)My ex and I have been off and on for 20 months. I just ended things tonight because he held me hostage in his car,again. We got into an argument and he ended up making a statement saying &quot;no wonder why your dad hit your mom&quot; and I started hitting his arm for it and told him that I was done and wanted to get out and he held me in his car,took my phone and keys and started driving. It got really bad,I was yelling,screaming and crying for him to let me go and drive me back to my car but he wouldn&#039;t. He raised his fist at me a couple of times and was calling me degrading names. Then I ended up hitting him again because of that and he ended up grabbing my leg really hard. He ended up doing it again and he squeezed it so hard that i screamed really loud and cried even harder. I kept telling him to let me out and he wouldn&#039;t so i hit him in the arm and i ended up slapping him in the face because he called me white trash and other names i won&#039;t say. Now I have bruises on my arm from him and I told him I hated him and that we&#039;re done.He started crying and saying he was sorry and kept begging for me to say that we&#039;re still together and not over with. I told him that no REAL man puts their hands on a girl even if they did hit them. I kept saying I was done and hated him and he cried and again,kept begging.Now I don&#039;t know what to do. This is the third time this has happened where he held me pretty much hostage in his car like that and it&#039;s gotten physical and it has never gotten as bad as this. My leg hurts really bad from where he squeezed me and it hurts to bend it. I love him to death and we&#039;ve been together for so long. I want to be with him so bad but I can&#039;t keep doing this at the same time. It&#039;s like i&#039;m basically saying that it&#039;s ok for him to put his hands on me when really,it&#039;s not at all.I don&#039;t know what to do anymore. When we get along,it&#039;s REALLY good...but when we fight,it gets really bad. He said he&#039;ll do anything to stay with me. He said he&#039;d go to couples counseling and anger management if he has to. I&#039;m 18 and he&#039;s 21. He said that he might as well die if I&#039;m done with him because he can&#039;t and won&#039;t be with anyone else but me.Like I said,I really want to be with him but at the same time...I can&#039;t keep taking him back for this. I know I put my hands on him too but what else was I suppose to do when he did that? He also said something about killing me and pushing me out of the car on the highway. I know he really wouldn&#039;t do that but still...I think that&#039;s psycho...I just need help on what you guys think I should do. Give him ANOTHER chance like I always do or what? I just can&#039;t picture myself with anyone else but him. It&#039;s like i&#039;ve been dealing with this for so long that i&#039;m just use to it. I don&#039;t know what i&#039;m going to do if I don&#039;t have him in my life. This is so hard.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Samantha, post: 2199711, member: 209999"] (This is from last night) My ex and I have been off and on for 20 months. I just ended things tonight because he held me hostage in his car,again. We got into an argument and he ended up making a statement saying "no wonder why your dad hit your mom" and I started hitting his arm for it and told him that I was done and wanted to get out and he held me in his car,took my phone and keys and started driving. It got really bad,I was yelling,screaming and crying for him to let me go and drive me back to my car but he wouldn't. He raised his fist at me a couple of times and was calling me degrading names. Then I ended up hitting him again because of that and he ended up grabbing my leg really hard. He ended up doing it again and he squeezed it so hard that i screamed really loud and cried even harder. I kept telling him to let me out and he wouldn't so i hit him in the arm and i ended up slapping him in the face because he called me white trash and other names i won't say. Now I have bruises on my arm from him and I told him I hated him and that we're done. He started crying and saying he was sorry and kept begging for me to say that we're still together and not over with. I told him that no REAL man puts their hands on a girl even if they did hit them. I kept saying I was done and hated him and he cried and again,kept begging. Now I don't know what to do. This is the third time this has happened where he held me pretty much hostage in his car like that and it's gotten physical and it has never gotten as bad as this. My leg hurts really bad from where he squeezed me and it hurts to bend it. I love him to death and we've been together for so long. I want to be with him so bad but I can't keep doing this at the same time. It's like i'm basically saying that it's ok for him to put his hands on me when really,it's not at all. I don't know what to do anymore. When we get along,it's REALLY good...but when we fight,it gets really bad. He said he'll do anything to stay with me. He said he'd go to couples counseling and anger management if he has to. I'm 18 and he's 21. He said that he might as well die if I'm done with him because he can't and won't be with anyone else but me. Like I said,I really want to be with him but at the same time...I can't keep taking him back for this. I know I put my hands on him too but what else was I suppose to do when he did that? He also said something about killing me and pushing me out of the car on the highway. I know he really wouldn't do that but still...I think that's psycho... I just need help on what you guys think I should do. Give him ANOTHER chance like I always do or what? I just can't picture myself with anyone else but him. It's like i've been dealing with this for so long that i'm just use to it. I don't know what i'm going to do if I don't have him in my life. This is so hard. [/QUOTE]

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