We met on a dating site..had really great chemistry, and in just one week, had 3 dates. All his initiative btw. So the third, (I know this is a common thing and I don't need any frigid punks trying to insult me btw,) had sex. I was a little doubtful since I thought that's all he wanted, etc., but he has asked more questions about me (random ones, questions to really get to know me), just tried to get to know me/pick my brain more, than my last bf did in 3 months. After we had sex, I was surprised that he wanted to cuddle for almost an hour..the thing is he hasn't done anything wrong in terms of texting or calling, anything. Just attentive abt getting to know me and intense.
The only thing is that he seems (and my friend's input too from seeing his profile,) like he is very good-looking, knows it, and is fond of sex (a little kinky as well.) Nothing wrong with it, but I had noticed that he logs in everyday still, (as do I though,) and since we only had sex the one time last weekend, (again, it's only been a week and a half,)he told me he'd have asked (that night,) if I'd want to stay over but knew I didin't have all my stuff I'd need..etc. So he asked if Wed. I would. (Hang out before obviously too,) He called to see if I still was going to this evening..told him wasn't sure since i wasn't feeling well. So I have to let him know tmmrw if yes or not. My prob is I want to, like him a lot but i wonder if we're on the same page and if he's considering me just a fling/sexual-wise, but then why all the questions, attentiveness, cuddling after sex? and I know it's too early to ask, should I wait a few wks.? When I stay over, it's mainly b/c I have a better feeling of where a guy and I stand..(the last hid his profile after our first time.) 2ndly, I'd think it's common for guys to continue to scope out other ppl online even though they met someone they like and started dating, right? but for how long after? Serious (nice) input please. Guys preferred.
The only thing is that he seems (and my friend's input too from seeing his profile,) like he is very good-looking, knows it, and is fond of sex (a little kinky as well.) Nothing wrong with it, but I had noticed that he logs in everyday still, (as do I though,) and since we only had sex the one time last weekend, (again, it's only been a week and a half,)he told me he'd have asked (that night,) if I'd want to stay over but knew I didin't have all my stuff I'd need..etc. So he asked if Wed. I would. (Hang out before obviously too,) He called to see if I still was going to this evening..told him wasn't sure since i wasn't feeling well. So I have to let him know tmmrw if yes or not. My prob is I want to, like him a lot but i wonder if we're on the same page and if he's considering me just a fling/sexual-wise, but then why all the questions, attentiveness, cuddling after sex? and I know it's too early to ask, should I wait a few wks.? When I stay over, it's mainly b/c I have a better feeling of where a guy and I stand..(the last hid his profile after our first time.) 2ndly, I'd think it's common for guys to continue to scope out other ppl online even though they met someone they like and started dating, right? but for how long after? Serious (nice) input please. Guys preferred.