Am I a lesbian? Or a confused teenager?
FranklyMreShankly
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I've always liked the looks of both men and women, though I notice women more.
And the male genitalia definitely disgusts me. I would never want to go near it. Everything about it grosses me out. Then, I find the women body absolutely beautiful.
Do I sound like a lesbian or just confused?
I am not worried about being gay. I am who I am, and I am perfectly confident with whatever I may be!
And the male genitalia definitely disgusts me. I would never want to go near it. Everything about it grosses me out. Then, I find the women body absolutely beautiful.
Do I sound like a lesbian or just confused?
I am not worried about being gay. I am who I am, and I am perfectly confident with whatever I may be!
I'm a 16 year old girl and i am attracted to Men. However, i agree with you...i have never found myself fantasizing about the size of IT or anything like that because to me it is disgusting. I won't not have sex with a man because of it and i have had sex before, but a mans genitals do not turn me on in the slighest, in fact it would probably turn me OFF.
I'm not a slut, i'm probably what you would call a fridge but i agree and i am not a lesbian.
Unless, you are attracted pyshically to women at this stage, you won't tell until the future.
I'm not a slut, i'm probably what you would call a fridge but i agree and i am not a lesbian.
Unless, you are attracted pyshically to women at this stage, you won't tell until the future.
Its hard to say, no one can answer this question for you but im sure we can provide insight on how we figured it out. I was the same way in highschool. I had crushes on guys and girls. My first kiss was a girl and i loved it. then there were some boys and it was soo not right for me. at that point I came to the conclusion that i was a lesbian and now im out to everyoneee and its great so i think you probably are but dont close any doors, just stay open minded and see where it takes you.
so i think you probably are but dont close any doors, just stay open minded and see where it takes you.Confused. I'm as straight as they come, and I don't find male genitalia attractive either.... what makes it attractive or desirable for me, is being with the man I love,and him knowing what to do with it.... then suddenly it looks reallllllllll good! 
Obv being a female, your own parts won't repluse you because they're yours, so.. another woman's wouldn't repluse you either.
Best wishes!
Obv being a female, your own parts won't repluse you because they're yours, so.. another woman's wouldn't repluse you either.
Best wishes!
I don't think you are gay. Women are the peacocks of the human race so they are more noticeable. And, did you know that all women respond to the beauty of other women whether they are gay or not?
Many girls are disgusted by male genitalia at first because it is completely different from what we have. That is completely in keeping with how most hetero girls feel. I thought it was disgusting when I was younger, too; even now I find it sort of comical (sometimes).
I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that your are a lesbian. What you've described makes you sound like a perfectly normal girl, IMO.
Many girls are disgusted by male genitalia at first because it is completely different from what we have. That is completely in keeping with how most hetero girls feel. I thought it was disgusting when I was younger, too; even now I find it sort of comical (sometimes).
I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that your are a lesbian. What you've described makes you sound like a perfectly normal girl, IMO.
mmBeyourselfmm
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You sound like a lesbian. Sort of like me before I knew. But always go with your heart. You'll always find your way when you follow it.
olivertwist'smom'smom
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you are you.