Am i Lesbian or Bisexual?

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LiziHayden

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So....i find sometimes, in highschool, myself looking at other girls butts, mostly the skinny ones. And also, their boobs. But i have a boyfriend, and have many crushes on really cute guys (and celebs)
Now for the question above, i want REAL answers. Not shit.
 
Good god... you think it would be so easy to tell. How hard is it to know if you like the opposite sex and/or the same sex?
 
Maybe your bisexual. But you could be just trying to compare yourself to them like many girls do. Unless you actually get pleasure from looking at them, you are not lesbian or bisexual.
 
Ok here is the deal, no woman can tell you she has never looked at another woman. The real question is HOW are you looking at them? When you are looking at another girls butt or chest are you thinking man she has a nice butt wish mine looked like that, or are you thinking dang she has a cute butt and boy would i like to know how firm it feels in my hands! If it the answer is the first then you are just checking them out to check out the competition so to speak, if the answer is the second then perhaps you should explore your feelings a little more to know for sure if you are just curious as many young people are or if you are really physically attracted to guys n girls both if that is so then you are Bi-sexual and there is nothing wrong with that either!
 
Desires for the same sex alone does not necessarily make you Lesbian or Bi
 
You're probably straight.
But its always hard to tell how things will work out.
You're at the highschool age so its obvious you're going to be curious. Who doesn't check out the same sex from time to time? It doesn't mean you want to do anything with them!
Just go with it and enjoy your sexuality. There is no clear cut line on where heterosexuality ends and homosexuality begins. It is always good to be open-minded and one day you're going to be totally in love with someone and you won't even care what gender they are.
I'd say don't try to label yourself too soon. Just see where it goes.
:)
 
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