motherof21
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My mom says that she would be resentful if another woman was calling to check on my brother and I. WOW! Is that the way a woman of God, a pastor is suppose to feel and think?
My fiance is in the Middle East and I call his son's every other week to see how they are doing and if they need anything. Unfortunately, I have to leave messages because their mother rarely answers the phone, just like she does with their father. I have other children from a previous relationship and we now have a child together. My children adore my fiance and calls him dad and he loves them just the same, and it goes without saying that I love his children too. So my mom says that she has raised my brother and I; therefore, if another woman was to come into the picture checking in on us then she would be resentful. Now I feel that is crazy because I, for one am not that type of woman. I honestly think my mom is harboring ill feelings towards my dad and his many wives which is another story in itself. Anyway, my fiances son's call me Ms **********, which doesn't bother me, and I do for them just like I do for my children. I love them, I talk to them, I respect them, and I encourage them. So what's the big deal? And may I add, she doesn't believe in second marriages or divorce; yet, she is divorced.
My fiance is in the Middle East and I call his son's every other week to see how they are doing and if they need anything. Unfortunately, I have to leave messages because their mother rarely answers the phone, just like she does with their father. I have other children from a previous relationship and we now have a child together. My children adore my fiance and calls him dad and he loves them just the same, and it goes without saying that I love his children too. So my mom says that she has raised my brother and I; therefore, if another woman was to come into the picture checking in on us then she would be resentful. Now I feel that is crazy because I, for one am not that type of woman. I honestly think my mom is harboring ill feelings towards my dad and his many wives which is another story in itself. Anyway, my fiances son's call me Ms **********, which doesn't bother me, and I do for them just like I do for my children. I love them, I talk to them, I respect them, and I encourage them. So what's the big deal? And may I add, she doesn't believe in second marriages or divorce; yet, she is divorced.