Hi need some advice. Im 32 years old, professional, educated, and never had a boyfriend. I was too shy, overweight, didn't feel good about myself. And not that i lost a tonne of weight, people are starting to set me up with guys, including family, who hope it will turn into marriage. It was ok at first, and now i feel awful. Ive been on a lot of coffee dates ,but can't seem to connect with anyone. Im starting to get worried if its me. THen I start wondering if I am gay. But ive always had crushes on men. Sometimes my fantasies involve me being a guy with a girl. And now I feel very confused. I have no experience with relationships. At this point im just scared. I might be going through an identity crisis. AFter losing weight, peole noticing me differently, I dont know what to do. I used to think I might as well be with anyone, and it will be ok. I can't do that anymore. I can't get stuck in something that does not feel right. I need some advice.