I'm in school and last year I needed some loans, but this year I worked hard and achieved federal funding so I didn't need to take loans out. I'm receiving a nice size refund check, but I'm going to be using toward my apartment costs. My brother jumped down my throat about my parents having to pay my rent because I didn't get scholarships. I explained I applied for every scholarship I could get, but wasn't awarded anything. He then got mad about me not letting him use my computer when there was another one he could use & started shouting about how ungreatful I am. I've been working all summer so that I can save up for my rent. I've also been accepted as a transfer to a major university. I know I've been working hard for everything I've got, but he said everyone is doing what I'm doing, basically saying I have nothing to be proud about. What do I do to show him that? I've been busting my tail to make my future happen & he's dismissing everything 