CynthiaTierney
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...can i do to redeem myself? i had dated this guy for nearly 2 months. we laugh and joke and have a blast together and get along 95% of the time. the other day we got into a little argument there wasnt any yelling or anything physical just a complete disagreement over the fact that he is basically treating me as a rebound. his last gf was nuts she was materialistic, lazy, a drunk, a cheater and just a ***** to him and his family according to him and yet he was at her beck and call wining and dining her, buying her lavish items, allowing her to live at his home without working and she basically slept all day he even did her laundry, folded it and delivered it to her in bed if she decided she needed an outfit for shopping or to go to the clubs. she eventually left him for another guy and he still tried to win her back
then he met me and i had no idea about any of this until recently. he has 0 tolerance for anything i do. its as if im disposable to him at the slightest hint of me disagreeing with him he makes me feel as if hes fed up and done as if im not worth anything to him. the argument was based on him basically telling me that he isnt going to be head over heels for any other women after his last ex because he was foolish and wasted his time. which essentially means he wont be doing anything to make me feel special even little things like flowers or saying i look beautiful and i felt like thats rediculous as if im suffering the consequences of another girls bad behavior. i pull my weight in the relationship, i graduate from nursing school in may and plan to work full time and have my own place, i dont ask or expect anything lavish from him and im down to earth yet he thinks i should just accept that hes not going to be head over heels for me. so he dropped me off at my car after the convo and didnt hug me or anything.
later that evening i texting him and said "maybe you should do your own thing i dont want to end up hurt" and he blew me off and didnt answer. so then i wrote back and said " **** you then you let your ex gf get away with everything short of murder and expect me to be punished for it apparently vanity and pig like behavior happens at all ages" (hes 10 yrs older than me) for which i apologized for today and he still hasnt said a word to me.
what do you think is going to happen?
then he met me and i had no idea about any of this until recently. he has 0 tolerance for anything i do. its as if im disposable to him at the slightest hint of me disagreeing with him he makes me feel as if hes fed up and done as if im not worth anything to him. the argument was based on him basically telling me that he isnt going to be head over heels for any other women after his last ex because he was foolish and wasted his time. which essentially means he wont be doing anything to make me feel special even little things like flowers or saying i look beautiful and i felt like thats rediculous as if im suffering the consequences of another girls bad behavior. i pull my weight in the relationship, i graduate from nursing school in may and plan to work full time and have my own place, i dont ask or expect anything lavish from him and im down to earth yet he thinks i should just accept that hes not going to be head over heels for me. so he dropped me off at my car after the convo and didnt hug me or anything.
later that evening i texting him and said "maybe you should do your own thing i dont want to end up hurt" and he blew me off and didnt answer. so then i wrote back and said " **** you then you let your ex gf get away with everything short of murder and expect me to be punished for it apparently vanity and pig like behavior happens at all ages" (hes 10 yrs older than me) for which i apologized for today and he still hasnt said a word to me.
what do you think is going to happen?