bisexual?... bisexual girls please help!!!?

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heres my facts...

as a little girl ive always like guys and had many crushes on boys

when i was young i was a tomboy and dressed in my brothers clothes

now im older (20) and im a really girly girl wear heels and what not.. i have a boyfriend and get really jealous of girls

however i have sexual fantasies about girls, not dikey ones but ones like me. and it turns me on that it turns guys on. but i can see myself doing things with a girl alone too... i just cant see myself in a relationship with one

when im walking down a crowded area im looking at men and hatin on woman...

i am so confused...

am i bisexual or just a normal girl with fantasies?

does it mean im bi because i would do things with a girl alone with no one watching?

i need help
thanks katherine that answer was a lot of help and very detailed!
 
It just sounds like you are insecure for the most part.
Perhaps you are pushing your sexual attraction to woman over onto your partner? By that I mean, sometimes if you think a girl is very beautiful it can be hard not to look over at your guy and think "well if I think she's gorgeous, he must be fighting a boner" which makes jealousy. It's hardly ever so straight forward but hopefully you get the gist of what I mean. But at the same time. It sounds like you have this dynamic going on. You want your guy to be in pleasure and you love that idea. But if it was you, him, & another girl- you'd want him to want you more than her. You'd want him to be turned on because of you. Not her. But you like the idea that he enjoys you're attraction to both genders, and that it turns him on so much.
It can be confusing but you're not alone. A lot of bisexual woman who prefer men, end up feeling this way. You should talk to your guy about it. Be honest and tell him how you feel.

Edit: It does sound as if you are bisexual. Of course, things look different in the fantasy realm of everyone's head and reality so you may want to watch some porn to fine tune you're feelings a little. Maybe you can get some insight into what it is exactly that you find sexually attractive. If you see yourself as the dominant one in your girl-on-girl fantasies than it's probably from the same dynamic I mentioned above. You like the idea of being the key to someones sexual arousal. You want to bring pleasure and you get a high from that. It's the same way for me. don't sweat it.
 
Hey girl...
You know, I was planing on posting the same question just to see what ppl think about it...
Here is what I think... U can't say for ur self that u r B but U also can't say u r not! :)
U don't know till u try it... So my advaise ( as i did) once u have fantasies, don't fight it but relax and try it... If it doesn;t work.... u'll know! But maybe u'll like it... Just trya and deside! There is nothing wrong in being B!
Good Luck girl... :)
 
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