Bisexual? Gay?

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Hmmm how do I say this?? Well first off my names Tanner. I have a boyfriend named Josh. And people are the most annoying things to ever walk the planet! Josh, my friend Aaron, and I all went to a movie. And this woman asked he if I was gay. I responded with no ma'am I'm bisexual. She decided to lecture me on how stupid it was to like the same sex. I hated this so I walkd away. A man asked me the same question later on that week, it gets very annoyihng if your bisexual and people think your gay/ lesbian. It drives me nuts! Shouyld I respond in another way or should I just say I am gay? Or what should I do it's verry annnoying!!
I am still bi and I am proud of being diffrent but I just hate people thinking I'm gay. I have nothing agianst gays because my boyfriends gay, but I just don't want to be called gay. If people don't know my sexual orientation for sure they should not comment wrong. A lot of people say no offense as if It won't hurt because they applied a "no offense" it still hurts, and I'm going to be offended because they just confused my sexual orientation
 
It's none of that woman's business to ask you. You were not causing trouble or disrupting society and peace now were you? I hope not! But the truth is nothing in life is ever 50-50. Things sway more to one side. You will be attracted in every way (emotionally, physically, sexually, mentally, spiritually) to one side, but the other side is most likely just admiration of their beauty. That is why it is really important to know yourself and to not rush in this department.
 
Some people can be mean, however, what you should do is politely tell them, "I would rather not answer because it is none of your business." To me, it does not matter whether you're straight, bi, or gay, as long as you respect me and I respect you, that is the way this world should work. If they ask out of curiosity, then be honest, but if they ask so they can ambush you into a sermon, just walk away from them. At least that is what I would do in your situation.
 
simply repsond, "no disrespect but thats none of your business" bcuz its not
 
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