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<blockquote data-quote="Misty" data-source="post: 706667" data-attributes="member: 211917">Firstly I am gay. I have always wondered how hard it is for bisexual people and thier partners. I ask this in sincerity and maturaty and expect the same back. I know a couple, one lesbian, one bi who have been in a relationship for 5 yrs. They have had tough times like any relationship but I also know trust issues plague them. Because being bi, Amy is attracted to men and still wants to explore that side of her sexuality. Now I know there are bi/straight bi/gay couples out there that do just fine. But I have always wondered, how does the bi partner deal with commitment then also sexual attractions to the oppisite/same sex. I know sex and love are two different things.But does the bi person have to shut out that side of themselves, or explain thier needs to thier partner so they can still explore. Is it hard, easy, possible for monogomy?I just want to know what its like for the bi person, the partner. Is it hard for you at all?Shutting your sexuality up or being allowed to still be you?This is out of curiousity only. I know we get alot of trash talkers, immature, hateful, just plain wierd people on here answering questions. I am only wanting to know how others deal with thier sexuality and being true to themselves and have a happy life.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Misty, post: 706667, member: 211917"] Firstly I am gay. I have always wondered how hard it is for bisexual people and thier partners. I ask this in sincerity and maturaty and expect the same back. I know a couple, one lesbian, one bi who have been in a relationship for 5 yrs. They have had tough times like any relationship but I also know trust issues plague them. Because being bi, Amy is attracted to men and still wants to explore that side of her sexuality. Now I know there are bi/straight bi/gay couples out there that do just fine. But I have always wondered, how does the bi partner deal with commitment then also sexual attractions to the oppisite/same sex. I know sex and love are two different things.But does the bi person have to shut out that side of themselves, or explain thier needs to thier partner so they can still explore. Is it hard, easy, possible for monogomy?I just want to know what its like for the bi person, the partner. Is it hard for you at all?Shutting your sexuality up or being allowed to still be you? This is out of curiousity only. I know we get alot of trash talkers, immature, hateful, just plain wierd people on here answering questions. I am only wanting to know how others deal with thier sexuality and being true to themselves and have a happy life. [/QUOTE]

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