I had sex for the first time about 4 months ago. I didn't really bleed, at least not that was noticed. However, I had sex the other day and bled a noticeable amount. The sex hurt for maybe the first few moments but then it was comfortable. I had sex again a couple days later and again bled a noticeable amount. The sex only hurt at the very beginning, just like the previous time. Am I just bleeding because I've only had sex a few times? Why didn't I bleed the first time? Is this normal? It's embarrassing to have to see a slightly bloody spot on the sheets when we switch positions, and kind of ruins my mood because I start feeling self conscious about it.