Boyfriend asks for pic of girl he met on myspace- how to heal?

Tess

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I was with my bf one night at a party. It was cold and we were waiting on one of his friends to show up so we sat in his car. One of his other friends pulls up and parks behind us so he goes to talk to him. I went to take get my phone out of the middle console and it wasn't there but his was so I was just going to text my mom on his. I start scrolling through his messages to find one from my mom when i see a name (just a letter, actually) I have NEVER seen before. I am always using his phone so I would know..
He sent the person a message saying "I really want to see your body" and she was like "ok let me shower"
him: "hurry"
blah blah.
So after that there isn't another message except "okay I sent it"
So I looked at his pictures and she had sent him a completely naked pic of herself!

I tripped out and got out of the car, confronted him, he made me so mad I slapped him.
Anyway we left and he told me these things:

He had never talked to her on the phone or in person.
He met her on myspace.
She lives way away. (like an hour and a half)
It was the ONLY time he had EVER done anything like that while dating me.
He would never do it again.

He loves me. And I am in love with him.


How do I get passed it??
How do I make sure he never does it again?
Should I even try?
 
An hour and a half is not that far hun! I would not forgive him for something like that.....picture this (sorry for the irony) you swap places with him and he opens a text that had a picture of an exposed guy who lived in the same area....he would freak out! And end it.....girl I think you should do the same....
 
An hour and a half is not that far hun! I would not forgive him for something like that.....picture this (sorry for the irony) you swap places with him and he opens a text that had a picture of an exposed guy who lived in the same area....he would freak out! And end it.....girl I think you should do the same....
 
HECK no get over that jerk he was awful to you. Move on and find yourself someone who loves YOU and only YOU.
 
HECK no get over that jerk he was awful to you. Move on and find yourself someone who loves YOU and only YOU.
 
the heck with him if he did it once he will probably (most likely) do it again
 
HECK no get over that jerk he was awful to you. Move on and find yourself someone who loves YOU and only YOU.
 
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