Boyfriend lied to me about a girl he met at a club...?

[xocristy09ox]

I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a couple of months and we live together with his daughter. Lately we have been having problems. One night i didn't want to go with him to a club, and he went with his friends. The next day he told me that a girl told him he looked good. They had a conversation, but he says nothing else happened. I asked him if he got her number and he said no. Two weeks later since we share cell phone accounts, i went in to look at the numbers he had been texting. I found a number that i have never seen and turns out in 5 days there were 470 messages. I confronted him and told me it was a girl he went to high school with and ran into her where he works. He told me the reason he talked to her was to get advice on us. I got upset because he hasn't talked to this girl in 7 years. After 6 days of believing him, he finally tells me that the girl he's been texting is not the girl he knew in high school but the girl he talked to at the club. The reason he talked to her was because she was going through some problems, and he came about getting her number to hear the rest of her story. Now i dont know what to do. He tells me there is nothing with her that they are just friends but they keep on texting and talking. He has lied to me about so many things that i dont believe him anymore. He came to my house last night crying histerically to forgive him. This morning he tells me that he told the girl not to text him anymore and he deleated her number. Please give me advice. I love him too much.
he did ask the girl for advice on us because he didnt know what to do with us

 

[thischick]

oh sweetie, there is no way that he was texting her to talk about her "personal problems"

guys hate talking about stuff like that with girls they know and love, why would he want to talk to a girl he doesnt know about stuff like that.

i would kick him to to curb, he is cheating, or planning on cheating with her. its obvious.