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<blockquote data-quote="pace" data-source="post: 2305631" data-attributes="member: 241982">Well basically I&#039;ve been an emotional wreck b/c I&#039;m pmsing and I guess I&#039;m complaining a lot more too? I don&#039;t realize that I usually do.. and today during tennis practice I was in a really b*tchy mood and I was missing like every hit bc of my bad mood which would piss me off even more..and my friend said I was complaining too much and she&#039;d rather play with someone else... I stopped complaining after she said this but then when I got home I just started crying hysterically.I&#039;m just upset because I complain bc I&#039;m a perfectionist so when I do something wrong I can&#039;t accept my mistakes and I obsess over them.. which leads me to complain... which leads others to be pissed off (no one has ever seemed annoyed that I complain so I never thought I did, before today) and I&#039;m upset bc I&#039;m afraid that other people don&#039;t want to be my friend because I complain a lot... and there&#039;s no way to undo my complaining. :/ (I&#039;m still not convinced that I normally complain a lot).My mom said that she would take me for counseling so I can deal with my perfectionism (I also want to go because I have an anxiety/nervousness issue) but I don&#039;t feel comfortable going..but I know it&#039;d help a lot.. ugh sorry if this sounds like I&#039;m rambling on.. (complaining? -_- ) but I just really need help.. thanks..</blockquote>

[QUOTE="pace, post: 2305631, member: 241982"] Well basically I've been an emotional wreck b/c I'm pmsing and I guess I'm complaining a lot more too? I don't realize that I usually do.. and today during tennis practice I was in a really b*tchy mood and I was missing like every hit bc of my bad mood which would piss me off even more..and my friend said I was complaining too much and she'd rather play with someone else... I stopped complaining after she said this but then when I got home I just started crying hysterically. I'm just upset because I complain bc I'm a perfectionist so when I do something wrong I can't accept my mistakes and I obsess over them.. which leads me to complain... which leads others to be pissed off (no one has ever seemed annoyed that I complain so I never thought I did, before today) and I'm upset bc I'm afraid that other people don't want to be my friend because I complain a lot... and there's no way to undo my complaining. :/ (I'm still not convinced that I normally complain a lot). My mom said that she would take me for counseling so I can deal with my perfectionism (I also want to go because I have an anxiety/nervousness issue) but I don't feel comfortable going..but I know it'd help a lot.. ugh sorry if this sounds like I'm rambling on.. (complaining? -_- ) but I just really need help.. thanks.. [/QUOTE]

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