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<blockquote data-quote="Needyouradvice1" data-source="post: 2589368" data-attributes="member: 880157">Hi guys! The following is the problem I&#039;m having:&nbsp;I am in love with a girl for quite a long time(around 7 years), but we were just normal friends for the past few years until I asked her out a few times last year. Then, one of her close friends sent me a message and told me that it was the first time she saw her friend somewhat interested in a guy. However, we didn&#039;t go into a relationship as I had to go overseas to further my studies. We just remained as friends.&nbsp;When I found out that she(the girl I&#039;m in love with) was interested in me because I&#039;m nice, I told her that actually I&#039;m not as nice as she thinks since I have quite a few flaws. Besides, I kept stressing this on several occasions. She then told me that even if I were to be back in my hometown now, we won&#039;t be together because my character doesn&#039;t suit her. I told her to give me some time to change for the better. A few months later when I returned to my hometown for a short holiday, she still agreed to go out with me to catch a movie.&nbsp;Can someone kindly please enlighten me why did she say my character doesn&#039;t suit her? Is it because of my lack of self-confidence? If possible, please also kindly advise why did she still go out with me when she said that my character doesn&#039;t suit her. Really appreciate your advices and thank you very much in advance!</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Needyouradvice1, post: 2589368, member: 880157"] Hi guys! The following is the problem I'm having: I am in love with a girl for quite a long time(around 7 years), but we were just normal friends for the past few years until I asked her out a few times last year. Then, one of her close friends sent me a message and told me that it was the first time she saw her friend somewhat interested in a guy. However, we didn't go into a relationship as I had to go overseas to further my studies. We just remained as friends. When I found out that she(the girl I'm in love with) was interested in me because I'm nice, I told her that actually I'm not as nice as she thinks since I have quite a few flaws. Besides, I kept stressing this on several occasions. She then told me that even if I were to be back in my hometown now, we won't be together because my character doesn't suit her. I told her to give me some time to change for the better. A few months later when I returned to my hometown for a short holiday, she still agreed to go out with me to catch a movie. Can someone kindly please enlighten me why did she say my character doesn't suit her? Is it because of my lack of self-confidence? If possible, please also kindly advise why did she still go out with me when she said that my character doesn't suit her. Really appreciate your advices and thank you very much in advance! [/QUOTE]

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