My Father was talking to my mother one day about a dream he had of his dad(my grandpa) who had recently just passed away a few months ago. The dream consists of my father in my grandpa's house. My grandpa is sitting in his usual lime green chair as my father is sitting on a couch facing my grandpa. My grandpa goes on to say that "Heaven has a lot of rules" and states that something will happen to my father on Jan. 15 and that he has to make a decision on March the 9th. Take note that my father was not particularly a holy man, and never mentioned much about religion even though he was a born christian. The dream ended after that. I was about 15 years old when my dad was talking to my mother about this.
Jan. 15th 2004. My father is involved in an automobile accident. He was T-boned from the side and suffered a TBI (Traumatic Brain Injury). He was flown to St. Lukes and almost died. The doctors said on a scale of 1-10 TBI it was an 8. The worst day of my life.
March 9th came and past without anything significant i could remember. My dad was in a coma for 6 months after the incident. He is a paraplegic with rapid and sometimes unpurposeful movement in his arms. He at one time in his recovery knew all of our names and could do the abcs and remarkably say some of the Our Father. But unfortunately 2 grand mal seizures set him back to step 1. Even though he is not the same dad before the accident. All i have to do is look into his eyes and I know he is there. Like a man trapped in his own body.
March 9th is, in my opinion, something that no one could see or touch or have knowledge of except my Dad. After all, my grandpa in the dream said it was a decision. A decision that I could only see as my Father accepting death or choosing to stay alive so he can continue to support our family and not leave us to suffer. My father was hurt on the job while driving back from work to get supplies from home, therefore we receive workman's compensation. To possibly absorb that my father chose the torture of surgery, medical treatment, seizures, lack of proper body movement, tracheotomy and a feeding tube shows the love that my father has for his family. But this is only my answer to a decision my Dad possibly made.
Another tidbit I forgot to mention is that a few days before Jan 15th my dad asked my mother if anything were to happen to him if she would take care of him. When my mother told me this she also told me she never heard him say anything like that before. Now, of course my Mom has taken extraordinary care of my Father and has been the sole reason for my dads continue survival. Thankfully she was a nurse before this all happened.
But to sum it all up I am a college kid that is 20 and will be 21 in a few weeks and I miss my dad. I would like some input on this dream my dad had. Could it just be a coincidence? Maybe. Maybe not. I probably will not know until I myself am deceased. Please feel free to express your opinion, my eyes are open to all things, no one will offend me with their opinion. Also if anyone can relate to this or has any other deceased family members come to them and predicted the future would be interesting to hear as well.
Thank you for reading. If you have any specific questions to ask I will try to answer.
-Ruffianx
Jan. 15th 2004. My father is involved in an automobile accident. He was T-boned from the side and suffered a TBI (Traumatic Brain Injury). He was flown to St. Lukes and almost died. The doctors said on a scale of 1-10 TBI it was an 8. The worst day of my life.
March 9th came and past without anything significant i could remember. My dad was in a coma for 6 months after the incident. He is a paraplegic with rapid and sometimes unpurposeful movement in his arms. He at one time in his recovery knew all of our names and could do the abcs and remarkably say some of the Our Father. But unfortunately 2 grand mal seizures set him back to step 1. Even though he is not the same dad before the accident. All i have to do is look into his eyes and I know he is there. Like a man trapped in his own body.
March 9th is, in my opinion, something that no one could see or touch or have knowledge of except my Dad. After all, my grandpa in the dream said it was a decision. A decision that I could only see as my Father accepting death or choosing to stay alive so he can continue to support our family and not leave us to suffer. My father was hurt on the job while driving back from work to get supplies from home, therefore we receive workman's compensation. To possibly absorb that my father chose the torture of surgery, medical treatment, seizures, lack of proper body movement, tracheotomy and a feeding tube shows the love that my father has for his family. But this is only my answer to a decision my Dad possibly made.
Another tidbit I forgot to mention is that a few days before Jan 15th my dad asked my mother if anything were to happen to him if she would take care of him. When my mother told me this she also told me she never heard him say anything like that before. Now, of course my Mom has taken extraordinary care of my Father and has been the sole reason for my dads continue survival. Thankfully she was a nurse before this all happened.
But to sum it all up I am a college kid that is 20 and will be 21 in a few weeks and I miss my dad. I would like some input on this dream my dad had. Could it just be a coincidence? Maybe. Maybe not. I probably will not know until I myself am deceased. Please feel free to express your opinion, my eyes are open to all things, no one will offend me with their opinion. Also if anyone can relate to this or has any other deceased family members come to them and predicted the future would be interesting to hear as well.
Thank you for reading. If you have any specific questions to ask I will try to answer.
-Ruffianx