Can you ever be gay for one person?

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My best friend and I were drinking and she told me sometmes she wish she were gay so we could be together. I'm bisexual and she's straight. I have had girls tell me that before jokingly, but my friend was crying and hugging me at the time. She said can't we have an "emotional relationship"? Later that night, she said she didn't think it was a good idea if she stayed at my house, so the guy she's dating came to pick her up in the early hours.
Really weird. Anyway, the next day she apologized saying she said too much.
We haven't talked about it since then but i am still confused. We've been best friends for 5 years.
Why would she say that? Does she secretly want me to make a move? I know alcohol was involved but in this case was a drunk mouth speaking a sober heart?

We've never done anything sexually... ever
ps- that guy isn't her boyfriend, just someone to keep her busy ;)
 
maybe she's confused and wants to be with you.
but watch out because if you guys decide to do something
and it doesn't work out you will lose a lover and your best friend.
 
"I know alcohol was involved but in this case was a drunk mouth speaking a sober heart?"

That is a very good point. I know when I was drunk I spilt out all my hidden feelings for my straight friend {even knowing the consquences afterwards, I just could'nt keep it in any longer} and that very well could be the case fo your friend.

She may be in a confused state at the moment with her sexuality and could need some time and space to figure it out. If you hav'nt got any feelings for her it's best that you just leave it ~ but if you do than indicate to her at some stage that you do want to discuss about it but only when she is ready to.

Hope all goes well :)
 
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