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<blockquote data-quote="Saphire" data-source="post: 2239781" data-attributes="member: 325346"><p>I started dating this guy and after weeks of talking, I told him that I am a virgin and that I had never been to even second base with a guy.&nbsp; He told me it would be hard, but he isn&#039;t in this just for sex and that he can wait.&nbsp; He has had sex with a couple of girls, and I don&#039;t know if he can hold out.&nbsp; We&#039;ve talked about it a couple of times and he brought up something about sexual incompatibility and said aren&#039;t you worried about marrying someone who is sexually incompatible.&nbsp; I truly like this guy and vice versa.&nbsp; We talk about everything and anything from school, to family, to even sex (because he wants to talk about it).&nbsp; If we were in a relationships maybe six months down the road, I wouldn&#039;t mind him being my first.&nbsp; I am just not ready and would need to hit all the bases before I go all the way with him first.&nbsp; He said he wouldn&#039;t pressure me to do anything that I didn&#039;t want to do, and I believe him.&nbsp; I just want to know how to make this easier for him, while still holding onto my values.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Saphire, post: 2239781, member: 325346"] I started dating this guy and after weeks of talking, I told him that I am a virgin and that I had never been to even second base with a guy. He told me it would be hard, but he isn't in this just for sex and that he can wait. He has had sex with a couple of girls, and I don't know if he can hold out. We've talked about it a couple of times and he brought up something about sexual incompatibility and said aren't you worried about marrying someone who is sexually incompatible. I truly like this guy and vice versa. We talk about everything and anything from school, to family, to even sex (because he wants to talk about it). If we were in a relationships maybe six months down the road, I wouldn't mind him being my first. I am just not ready and would need to hit all the bases before I go all the way with him first. He said he wouldn't pressure me to do anything that I didn't want to do, and I believe him. I just want to know how to make this easier for him, while still holding onto my values. [/QUOTE]

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