For example do you use your car to pick up you kids friends or neighborhood kids to bring them to church with you?? Do you use your home to hold church meetings or have a youth group meeting at?? Or just to have fun at with your brothers and sisters in Christ?? Also..(this is just a hypothetical situation but..) if you had a friend at your church that always helped you out by bringing you kid to church every week because you had work to do...would you have a problem with bringing their kids to church when they needed a ride?? Or would you think it's expected of the other parents just for them to bring your child when they need a ride?? Most ppl will let their friends in the church give their kid a ride when their busy but are not willing to give other kids a ride when their parents are busy.(confusing I know, sorry about that) What does this say about that person?? Or if their friends always let them use their house for fun and meetings but that person never shared their house with the church. What does that say about the person?? Thanks very much 