Christians: What do I do if someone has a crush on me?

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so I just started uni about 7 weeks ago and I realised recently that a guy on my course has a crush on me (still can't figure out why as I haven;t said much to him). But anyway, all he's done is stare at me and today, he sat next to me though there were many seats available.

I don;t know what to do because I know God most likely has a husband for me out there but I'm pretty sure he's not going to introduce him to me aged 18 and just starting life. lol. Obviously, I'm flattered (very) but I'm stuck between going after what the flesh wants and sticking with God. But then I don't know if God himself has sent the guy to me if you see what I mean.

t's very weird as well cos I prayed to God before I started uni asking him not to bring me any distractions with boys and I was fine up until now and all these stupid love feelings have started. I've done stupid things and had bad experiences in the past to know that it's best left to God.

What should I do?
I don't even know if he;s a Christian and I don't know what to do if he tries to get to know me etc. I'm inexperienced and awful at these things but yet here I am getting that 'delicious' feeling you get when you have a crush on someone or they in turn have a crus on you.
 
You seem like an easy target for infatuation.If you study Jesus' real as contrasted to church taught fantasy interpretations of His teachings on marriage,you would be able to divorce yourself of the dangerously deceitful belief that "I know God most likely has a husband for me out there".Once you do that you will not be so easily suckered by guys who are into lust and your flesh.:bad:

Luke 20:34-36
34 Jesus answered and said to them, “The sons of this age marry and are given in marriage. 35 But those who are counted worthy to attain that age, and the resurrection from the dead, neither marry nor are given in marriage; 36 nor can they die anymore, for they are equal to the angels and are sons of God, being sons of the resurrection".
 
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