My girlfriend and me are both 21, and we've been dating for nearly three years.
Last night, she was reading her Cosmopolitan Magazine, and suggested we both write the "Cosmo Quiz" at the very back regarding: "Can He Read Your Sex Signals". (It was the February 2011 copy fyi)
She would write it secretly, then I would write it afterwards from what I thought HER perspective would be like, not knowing what she had written before.
It turned out we had the EXACT same results...
Here's what the "results" were, and its kinda scary how accurate it is:...
"0-3 Points - Totally Incommunicado
Is your boyfriend psyhic? Because there's no way in hell an average dude could deduce what you want to from your super-vague signals. "Keeping you desires on the DL leaves him clueless and you unsatisifed," says sexologist Yvonne K. Fulbright, PhD, author of The Better Sex Guide to Extraordinary Lovemaking. If you feel awkward spelling it out, try guiding his hand to your hot spots during sex instead. Otherwise, you'll end up beyond sexually frustrated."
To top this off, we've been having some problems in the bedroom recently... For some reason its awkward, and just doesn't happen. She's very defensive about it and even refuses to talk about it.
She read this aloud and got VERY uncomfortable as she continued to read it. Then she stopped and REFUSED to talk about it with me, even after I said that I would really like to.
This quiz was a blessing in disguise, because it seems to have sparked something in her head, and opened a door that I was unable to.
I guess my question is to you ladies; how can I bring this up again seriously. I NEED to talk about it because I'm very sexually frustrated, and its putting a lot of stress on our relationship...
Thanks!
Last night, she was reading her Cosmopolitan Magazine, and suggested we both write the "Cosmo Quiz" at the very back regarding: "Can He Read Your Sex Signals". (It was the February 2011 copy fyi)
She would write it secretly, then I would write it afterwards from what I thought HER perspective would be like, not knowing what she had written before.
It turned out we had the EXACT same results...
Here's what the "results" were, and its kinda scary how accurate it is:...
"0-3 Points - Totally Incommunicado
Is your boyfriend psyhic? Because there's no way in hell an average dude could deduce what you want to from your super-vague signals. "Keeping you desires on the DL leaves him clueless and you unsatisifed," says sexologist Yvonne K. Fulbright, PhD, author of The Better Sex Guide to Extraordinary Lovemaking. If you feel awkward spelling it out, try guiding his hand to your hot spots during sex instead. Otherwise, you'll end up beyond sexually frustrated."
To top this off, we've been having some problems in the bedroom recently... For some reason its awkward, and just doesn't happen. She's very defensive about it and even refuses to talk about it.
She read this aloud and got VERY uncomfortable as she continued to read it. Then she stopped and REFUSED to talk about it with me, even after I said that I would really like to.
This quiz was a blessing in disguise, because it seems to have sparked something in her head, and opened a door that I was unable to.
I guess my question is to you ladies; how can I bring this up again seriously. I NEED to talk about it because I'm very sexually frustrated, and its putting a lot of stress on our relationship...
Thanks!