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<blockquote data-quote="LADY~S" data-source="post: 2265624" data-attributes="member: 782782">I&#039;m 23 my boyfriend is 26. My boyfriend pretty much exhibits every characteristic of being a mommas boy. He was raised in a single parent home and almost everything about him screams that his mom made him into a &quot;B!tch&quot; I really hate yo say it but his mom really did.Ahh. I definitely know I&#039;m not perfect but there&#039;s only so much of this I can take -- I almost feel like his mother at times.We both still live at home.. (im finishing up school, he works full time)His grandmother and his mother pretty much do everything. He doesn&#039;t know how to really cook, clean or anything related to that. (AND sadly... he has a younger brother (13) and the way his mother is babying him is sickening... I can only imagine how he will grow up)I&#039;m trying to look past this and get into him more....What should I say to him when he begins to whine about certain things.. or complain? sometimes I feel like saying &quot;shut the f*ck up B!tch&quot; Or &quot;kill me&quot;and sometimes he&#039;ll say things like &quot;I know you like it...&quot; when I OBVIOUSLY do not!...BUT what could I say that could *hint* to him that he needs to work on this?for example... one time (last time lol) we were playing his xbox... and the way he acted, I was soo turned off-he was like a big kid... not really wanting to share, help or anything. It was so unattractive to see a grown man like that.Damn his mother... ewanyways just some advice. All and all he&#039;s a nice guy so I want to give him the benefit of the doubt.also, he hasn&#039;t had many relationships... but his group of close friends are a great bunch of guys.. so I know there has to be some great qualities about him!How do I HINT to him!</blockquote>

[QUOTE="LADY~S, post: 2265624, member: 782782"] I'm 23 my boyfriend is 26. My boyfriend pretty much exhibits every characteristic of being a mommas boy. He was raised in a single parent home and almost everything about him screams that his mom made him into a "B!tch" I really hate yo say it but his mom really did. Ahh. I definitely know I'm not perfect but there's only so much of this I can take -- I almost feel like his mother at times. We both still live at home.. (im finishing up school, he works full time) His grandmother and his mother pretty much do everything. He doesn't know how to really cook, clean or anything related to that. (AND sadly... he has a younger brother (13) and the way his mother is babying him is sickening... I can only imagine how he will grow up) I'm trying to look past this and get into him more.... What should I say to him when he begins to whine about certain things.. or complain? sometimes I feel like saying "shut the f*ck up B!tch" Or "kill me" and sometimes he'll say things like "I know you like it..." when I OBVIOUSLY do not!... BUT what could I say that could *hint* to him that he needs to work on this? for example... one time (last time lol) we were playing his xbox... and the way he acted, I was soo turned off-he was like a big kid... not really wanting to share, help or anything. It was so unattractive to see a grown man like that. Damn his mother... ew anyways just some advice. All and all he's a nice guy so I want to give him the benefit of the doubt. also, he hasn't had many relationships... but his group of close friends are a great bunch of guys.. so I know there has to be some great qualities about him! How do I HINT to him! [/QUOTE]

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