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Do I tell dying Mum why I'm distant from her?
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<blockquote data-quote="HayleyM" data-source="post: 1509946" data-attributes="member: 129443"><p>Basically my Mum has cancer and is dying from it. She knows that I have a lot of repressed issues and anger and has tried getting me to speak to a psychologist in the last few days. She has asked him to try and persuade me to talk to her about why I am so distant towards her and why I never really talk to her and let her in emotionally. The reason is that when I was a child I was abused sexually, mentally and emotionally and she got told a little about it but nothing was ever done till I was fifteen a dew year later. Because of her attitude about it I was raped. I feel that if she acted upon it the first chance she got then I wouldn't have been raped. Consequently, I feel resentment towards her for it. Do I tell her this? I've been told that if I want to do something about it then I have about a week in which I can do so. What do you think? ANy advice would be very helpful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HayleyM, post: 1509946, member: 129443"] Basically my Mum has cancer and is dying from it. She knows that I have a lot of repressed issues and anger and has tried getting me to speak to a psychologist in the last few days. She has asked him to try and persuade me to talk to her about why I am so distant towards her and why I never really talk to her and let her in emotionally. The reason is that when I was a child I was abused sexually, mentally and emotionally and she got told a little about it but nothing was ever done till I was fifteen a dew year later. Because of her attitude about it I was raped. I feel that if she acted upon it the first chance she got then I wouldn't have been raped. Consequently, I feel resentment towards her for it. Do I tell her this? I've been told that if I want to do something about it then I have about a week in which I can do so. What do you think? ANy advice would be very helpful. [/QUOTE]
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