and if so, how serious does the relationship have to be for you to feel comfortable with this? Just curious, cuz i've been in 2 serious relationships before and have never felt comfortable allowing my boyfriends to go through my phone.. apparently this is odd and i'm told a sign of either wrongdoing or no trust............. i'd like to know how many of you serious relationship'ers are ok with ur boyfriends/girlfriends checkin out your phone.