If you are engaged, but your family is broken, toxic, and frankly embarrassing in contrast to your fiance's kind and traditional family, what do you do? Should you just not have a wedding? I really want to have a wedding, but I can imagine my mother throwing a fit, my siblings being rude and white trash, baby daddy hostilities taking place, etc. I feel terrible for asking or seeming ashamed of my family... but they can be pretty mean and I have worked hard to move up in life. I don't know what to do. Help!