acourding to anti racist logic your phisical being (race) cannot afect your personality (wich i find true). antigays say people people of one gender cant marrie the same gender. But a gay man has the same sexuality as a straght woman. so if there phisical being has nothing to do with anything whats the problem. and above all, nobodys rights are being violated if to gays marry. it does not denie you your given rights nor the couple being married. you cant put a label on what love is. gay people are just doing what humans sometimes do. And chronologicly the amount of times somthing happens (gay happens) does not define right and wrong. i think anti gays are the root of phobia, and insucureity just like racism. dont give bull crap reasons why your against gays like saying ewww its gross.