yes hi Ive been having issues with my I guess now ex girlfriend. we both love each other are compatibile except sexually.. Ive tried everything to seduce I even went out and bought a 1700 dollar ring and proposed, hoping that making a committment would close the gap in our love life? Im so tired of being rejected and told no or stop. she has issues with herself and we talked about counseling? am i being a asshole.. i do everything for her and that still doesnt make her want me like I want her? am I being a asshole or realistic?
I am 27 and she is 29.. we have had sex.. im a ftm and she is not really used to guys being a lesbian.. its not only about sex, sometimes when I want to just touch she pulls my hand away and says no.. or just being playful with her.. i wish i could just cut my sex drive off but thats not who i am.. I love her so much but this is the only real issue we have.. i asked for the ring back and she took that as breaking up i just think i proposed too early, i want to live with her and see how things progress...she tells me things will get better with time but that seems unrealistic to me..
I am 27 and she is 29.. we have had sex.. im a ftm and she is not really used to guys being a lesbian.. its not only about sex, sometimes when I want to just touch she pulls my hand away and says no.. or just being playful with her.. i wish i could just cut my sex drive off but thats not who i am.. I love her so much but this is the only real issue we have.. i asked for the ring back and she took that as breaking up i just think i proposed too early, i want to live with her and see how things progress...she tells me things will get better with time but that seems unrealistic to me..