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<blockquote data-quote="Gerall" data-source="post: 2004832" data-attributes="member: 727083">has lost interest in me? i dont know if i cam off desperate or like i dont have many options or if clingy is the word. i met this girl at my college bbq. she is 22. she sat down next to me and started talking to me. later in the week i got her number. then a week later from when we met i chilled with her and her friends(girls) between classes for like 3 hours. that night she called me and we talked for 20 minutes. 20 minutes later she called me and said it was a mistake she was trying to call some one else. the next day i called her and asked her if she would like to get together and do something fun sometime. she said yes that would be cool. we talked for 3 hours on aim and finalized our plans while talking about other stuff. the next day i went to see her in the library she was studying for an exam that day and did not seem excited or happy to see me. so i left she was busy. after i worked out i was boored so i went back to see if she was just chilling then. so i asked if she was still studying she and her friend giggled a bit and said yes. so i sat down at another table by my self&nbsp; near her and read and chatted with my friends on my laptop obviously hoping i could spend some time with her. eventually i asked if i could join her at her table. then when she left for lunch i asked if i could join her for lunch and she said sure. i am worried the way i acted made her feel i am clingy and not dating anyone else which i am not and this will make her for some reason loose interest in me? will it?is she showing signals i am not the only guy and there is other competition for her? do you think she does not like me around her? do you think its because she wants to flirt with other guys in her class she is studying with?</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Gerall, post: 2004832, member: 727083"] has lost interest in me? i dont know if i cam off desperate or like i dont have many options or if clingy is the word. i met this girl at my college bbq. she is 22. she sat down next to me and started talking to me. later in the week i got her number. then a week later from when we met i chilled with her and her friends(girls) between classes for like 3 hours. that night she called me and we talked for 20 minutes. 20 minutes later she called me and said it was a mistake she was trying to call some one else. the next day i called her and asked her if she would like to get together and do something fun sometime. she said yes that would be cool. we talked for 3 hours on aim and finalized our plans while talking about other stuff. the next day i went to see her in the library she was studying for an exam that day and did not seem excited or happy to see me. so i left she was busy. after i worked out i was boored so i went back to see if she was just chilling then. so i asked if she was still studying she and her friend giggled a bit and said yes. so i sat down at another table by my self near her and read and chatted with my friends on my laptop obviously hoping i could spend some time with her. eventually i asked if i could join her at her table. then when she left for lunch i asked if i could join her for lunch and she said sure. i am worried the way i acted made her feel i am clingy and not dating anyone else which i am not and this will make her for some reason loose interest in me? will it? is she showing signals i am not the only guy and there is other competition for her? do you think she does not like me around her? do you think its because she wants to flirt with other guys in her class she is studying with? [/QUOTE]

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