to throw my own event? I'm not looking to pay for it either. What i'm looking for is a club/lounge that is willing to just take from whatever they make at the bar!!
If you are looking to throw a private event no bar will be willing to do that for free. You would have to pay them the equivalent of a full nights income in order to take the place over for a private event and not allow their regular crowd to enter.
You would have to go to a special event hall and those aren't cheap either.
You won't find anyone willing to do this for free. Bar owners need to make a profit, they don't open their doors for free to anybody.