hi, my name is nate. i met this girl through a friend (don't we all?), she comes over and calls alot.. she just got out of a 2 1/2 year relationship and we really like each other. she is still trippin' off of her past relationship but still shows interest in me. i don't have much money to offer the gal or a car to take her places lol; wish i did so we can go out and do other things then sitting at home (i have a really bad fractured ankle so i cant really walk around much). she shows off her affection to all my friends when we are around each other and some nights there will be some intimacy between the two of us. she invites me over and buys me things when she gets paid, she helps me clean my house, helps me cook, etc. i know that space between a couple is a good thing and most of the time the 2 don't want it when it first takes off but i was recently thinking that imight be getting a little attached.. the last time i got attached to a woman she used me for everything i was and left me broken with no mercy. im not sure if im 100% over the ex but its scary to talk to her and i avoid as much communication as possible. the new girl is really chill.. i like her but i don't want to like her "to much" you know what i'm saying? its only been like a month lol! any advice? opinions? tips?
she talks about certain situations with her ex boyfriend and i just tell her "i don't want to touch that situation with a pole of any size". she looks at me and kinda smirks.. is that the right thing i should say.. i hate dealing with that ex drama crap. the two of them broke up and she slept with someone and the ex got mad at her because he wanted to ask her out again? idk.. the ex has no idea that me and her are sleeping together all he knows is that we hang out alot; as far as hes concerned we are just friends. one time the guy called me on a blocked number when she told him i left my charger at her house and my phone was dead.. it was awkward lol. she talks about how shes hella confused cause i guess shes like waiting for him to come back to her but hes already in another relationship.. ill probably wait another month or two until i start making stronger moves.. tips? opinions? advice?
she talks about certain situations with her ex boyfriend and i just tell her "i don't want to touch that situation with a pole of any size". she looks at me and kinda smirks.. is that the right thing i should say.. i hate dealing with that ex drama crap. the two of them broke up and she slept with someone and the ex got mad at her because he wanted to ask her out again? idk.. the ex has no idea that me and her are sleeping together all he knows is that we hang out alot; as far as hes concerned we are just friends. one time the guy called me on a blocked number when she told him i left my charger at her house and my phone was dead.. it was awkward lol. she talks about how shes hella confused cause i guess shes like waiting for him to come back to her but hes already in another relationship.. ill probably wait another month or two until i start making stronger moves.. tips? opinions? advice?