Does she really mean what she said?

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My best friend is a girl who already has a boyfriend. I feel like I am completely in love with her. She used to like me, but she says she is confused towards me now. For a few months we were very close, like a couple without the public displays of affection. Now she has realized that it was wrong of her , like she was cheating on her boyfriend. She has somewhat distanced herself from me now, but she assures me that we are still best friends. I feel like I have completely lost her, and with my feelings for her, it feels like I have been "dumped" and I am very sad. She says "you never know what could happen", saying how there could still be the possibility of us getting together. Does she really mean this or is she just saying this not to hurt me? I don't know what to do right now. I really care about her and want to be with her. Should I just move on? Please help. No mean answers. Girls' point of views preferred.
She says she would "totally marry me if we were older".
 
Girl's point of view -

1. She really doesn't want to hurt you.
2. She really doesn't know what or who she wants
3. She really wants to keep her options open.
4. You've just been put on the waiting list.

Its your choice. Can you handle waiting on the waiting list?
 
Give her some time.
She has unfinished business with 2 parties.
Step aside for a little while... if you don't put any pressure on her, she should come back to you when she's ready.
 
There's no point in sitting around and waiting for her, if she's already got a boyfriend. You might miss out on something great. I'd move on and in the future if you two happen to be single together then start something up.
 
i'm female.
she recognizes that she probably will not be with her current boyfriend forever.

I think you should believe her.

that does not mean that you should sit at home waiting till she calls - do things you enjoy, don't worry about her. I know, it isn't that easy, but it is still what you should do.
 
There's always this one guy a girl has a crush on, and a guy who is her best friend.
actually, i ended up going out with my best friend. I'm pretty sure she means it. There is a huge possibility yu guys might end up together too. But i guess its going to take some time.
 
I think she only said it to be nice and not to hurt you. Im sure she loves you as a best friend. I think if she really liked you, she wouldve chose you instead of her bf. But remember, if her relationship doesnt work out, and goes for you, would you be ok with it? it sounds like she has u for back up. just be careful. i know its difficult but that is my advice
 
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