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<blockquote data-quote="pandora66778899" data-source="post: 453097">My exbf and I broke up when I was 10 weeks pregnant. I&#039;m 30 weeks now. I was due to have my last ultrasound on 4/9, he was supposed to go but he called on 4/7 to let me know that he couldn&#039;t make it because he had to work mandatory overtime. I didn&#039;t get upset. My bd was on 5/1, and he called me to wish me happy bd but also to complaint that I didn&#039;t call him to let him know the results of the u/s. I asked him why didn&#039;t he call me and he said that he did; I have no record of this call. Not even a message. So here I am listening at him for 50 min telling me that I should&#039;ve called him and why didn&#039;t I think he cared (he took 3 weeks to call, plus needed an excuse before doing so; also he&#039;s seen me 3 or 4 times ever since and never said a word to me). His excuse was that he thought I was upset with him. I don&#039;t understand. He has no right to bitch at me for anything or complaint because I don&#039;t go out of my way to keep him informed of the pregnancy. He&#039;s 31 not 13.What am I supposed to understand of this behavior? How am I supposed to handle it? I was very cool and calmed because I was having a great day on my bd but I don&#039;t get the baby behavior from him. He also made a couple of comments that let me know that he is listening to his mother and sister in law with whom I had dinner with on 4/17 because of things he said. I don&#039;t know what to do here. I&#039;m finding it hard to deal with him and I don&#039;t know what am I going to do once she&#039;s here. I am very confused. I still care about him but I had given up on a relationship with him because I don&#039;t get him anymore. Do you think he&#039;s doing this because wanting to be a father or wanting to have something to do with me?</blockquote>

[QUOTE="pandora66778899, post: 453097"] My exbf and I broke up when I was 10 weeks pregnant. I'm 30 weeks now. I was due to have my last ultrasound on 4/9, he was supposed to go but he called on 4/7 to let me know that he couldn't make it because he had to work mandatory overtime. I didn't get upset. My bd was on 5/1, and he called me to wish me happy bd but also to complaint that I didn't call him to let him know the results of the u/s. I asked him why didn't he call me and he said that he did; I have no record of this call. Not even a message. So here I am listening at him for 50 min telling me that I should've called him and why didn't I think he cared (he took 3 weeks to call, plus needed an excuse before doing so; also he's seen me 3 or 4 times ever since and never said a word to me). His excuse was that he thought I was upset with him. I don't understand. He has no right to bitch at me for anything or complaint because I don't go out of my way to keep him informed of the pregnancy. He's 31 not 13. What am I supposed to understand of this behavior? How am I supposed to handle it? I was very cool and calmed because I was having a great day on my bd but I don't get the baby behavior from him. He also made a couple of comments that let me know that he is listening to his mother and sister in law with whom I had dinner with on 4/17 because of things he said. I don't know what to do here. I'm finding it hard to deal with him and I don't know what am I going to do once she's here. I am very confused. I still care about him but I had given up on a relationship with him because I don't get him anymore. Do you think he's doing this because wanting to be a father or wanting to have something to do with me? [/QUOTE]

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