LolatheShowGirl
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- Mar 1, 2009
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I've got a huge problem. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 19 (before I get any lectures about irresponsible sex blah blah I just want to say that we've been together three years and have been completely faithful and I am on birth control... happy now? in case there's any nagging old ladies out there)
When we started going out, we waited 8 months before we had sex, then we were at it like rabbits while I was on the pill. A while later I came off the pill and we stopped having sex for 10 months. Then I had the implant put in my arm and we were able to screw to our heart's content...
But that was not to be. For a while after I got the implant we decided to use condoms to be extra safe... But every time my boyfriend saw a condom he'd turn from one big raging hormone into a limp noodle... So we gave up the condoms and things were great... Until we started going out more. After he had gone out three nights in a row, drinking (and for all those nagging old ladies, the drinking age in Ireland is 18) the next time we tried to have sex he was all up for it, until we started to go for it... and he lost it... it happened again and again and again... leaving me unhappy... Then it was all grand until the other day he had a few drinks (he wasn't even remotely drunk, but I was) and I decided I wanted to get me some because I wanted to try it drunk... So away we went... And away it went... Just as we were getting into it...
What the hell am I supposed to do?!?! I keep feeling like it's all my fault... I love the guy and everything but this is getting really depressing! Does it have to be a choice between drink and sex or is there another way??!! Please help!
When we started going out, we waited 8 months before we had sex, then we were at it like rabbits while I was on the pill. A while later I came off the pill and we stopped having sex for 10 months. Then I had the implant put in my arm and we were able to screw to our heart's content...
But that was not to be. For a while after I got the implant we decided to use condoms to be extra safe... But every time my boyfriend saw a condom he'd turn from one big raging hormone into a limp noodle... So we gave up the condoms and things were great... Until we started going out more. After he had gone out three nights in a row, drinking (and for all those nagging old ladies, the drinking age in Ireland is 18) the next time we tried to have sex he was all up for it, until we started to go for it... and he lost it... it happened again and again and again... leaving me unhappy... Then it was all grand until the other day he had a few drinks (he wasn't even remotely drunk, but I was) and I decided I wanted to get me some because I wanted to try it drunk... So away we went... And away it went... Just as we were getting into it...
What the hell am I supposed to do?!?! I keep feeling like it's all my fault... I love the guy and everything but this is getting really depressing! Does it have to be a choice between drink and sex or is there another way??!! Please help!