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<blockquote data-quote="profile" data-source="post: 2231153" data-attributes="member: 781871">My parents hate my bf of 3 years. I am 24 years old and I live overseas with my bf and go to medical school in the US. When my dad learned that i moved in with my bf, he started sending me and him constant insults and threats and made my whole family cut contact with me.To make matters worse, my parents are blackmailing me. They have contacted two professors at my university and even the dean of medical school to tell them that my bf and I are immoral, he is manipulating me and cheating on me and that I am mentally unstable and should not be allowed to continue medical school.Yesterday I found out that they made a facebook profile and added some of my friends that they had met before this drama plus random people from my med school class that they found online. Now they are threatening that if I do not break up with my bf, they will contact these people and tell them bad things about my bf and me (most of which are not true or exaggerated) including details about my personal life. Even though I have nothing to hide, I find this to be extremely humiliating that my parents are contacting my friends at 24 yrs old. They will also make me and my bf sound really bad in these e-mails by telling lies and stretching the truth.I am extremely embarrassed. My profs and even the dean know about this and I wanted to ask these people for rec&#039;s when I would apply for residencies, now I do not know if they will write me one. My parents are also threatening me with suicide. My dad quit his work after he found out about me and my bf and he became completely crazy talking to himself and blaming my mom for raising me to be so immoral and corrupt. I feel horrible and extremely embarrassed and humiliated. What can I do to redeem this situation?</blockquote>

[QUOTE="profile, post: 2231153, member: 781871"] My parents hate my bf of 3 years. I am 24 years old and I live overseas with my bf and go to medical school in the US. When my dad learned that i moved in with my bf, he started sending me and him constant insults and threats and made my whole family cut contact with me. To make matters worse, my parents are blackmailing me. They have contacted two professors at my university and even the dean of medical school to tell them that my bf and I are immoral, he is manipulating me and cheating on me and that I am mentally unstable and should not be allowed to continue medical school. Yesterday I found out that they made a facebook profile and added some of my friends that they had met before this drama plus random people from my med school class that they found online. Now they are threatening that if I do not break up with my bf, they will contact these people and tell them bad things about my bf and me (most of which are not true or exaggerated) including details about my personal life. Even though I have nothing to hide, I find this to be extremely humiliating that my parents are contacting my friends at 24 yrs old. They will also make me and my bf sound really bad in these e-mails by telling lies and stretching the truth. I am extremely embarrassed. My profs and even the dean know about this and I wanted to ask these people for rec's when I would apply for residencies, now I do not know if they will write me one. My parents are also threatening me with suicide. My dad quit his work after he found out about me and my bf and he became completely crazy talking to himself and blaming my mom for raising me to be so immoral and corrupt. I feel horrible and extremely embarrassed and humiliated. What can I do to redeem this situation? [/QUOTE]

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