extreme sexuality confusion!!!?

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ok... so my story is this, I came out to my mom I was a lesbian. but ever since that, I kept going back and forth with being lesbian or bi. I know for sure I like girls but I am confused if I like boys or not. everytime I see a muscular shirtless guy I deffinately think it's hot. so... honestly I think I'm bi... but for some reason I feel uncomfortable with the thought of being bi. cuz i'm afraid that people won't take my sexuality seriously. like...they might just think I'm still confused. so i'm pretty much saying I i'm afraid to admit I'm bi or that I'm lesbian. I can't make up my mind. plz help? =(
 
I'm kinda in the same boat as you, i mean, I'm sure I love girls, but I have my doubts about guys. It's weird, I'm not at all physically attracted to them, not at all, but I think I may still be able to fall in love with them.?? I don't want to though, I would just to be like one or the other, not in between. I'm sure people would call me bisexual, but I kinda take offense to that. I don't know what I am really. Just start dating girls exclusively and after awhile, if you still feel like dating guys, then I would say ur bi. Only time and experience will tell.
 
Im a lesbian and been with my girlfriend for a while but that doesnt stop me from admitting and admire some guy's hot ness ;P just like my gay friends, even though they are gay, that doesnt mean their definition of a beautiful woman is obscure and having no problem with giving compliments...they just dont wanna hump the woman.
 
Honestly, when you are bisexual, it's the stereotype that is known for 'confusion.' If you know you are physically attracted to men, you are definitely NOT a lesbian. Just be you; don't worry about labeling yourself.. It's not necessary.
 
ur brain washed by watching too much of the Hollywood crab & ur confused cuz 1 part of u want to copy cat all those idiots called celebrities telling u to be with another girl is ok & hip, while the natural part of u still likes men.
 
dont give a sh it what people think. respect yourself and how you feel. If you're bi so be it. if you're gay so be it. just be happy. :)
 
if you are bi then you are bi you sound bi to me and there is nothing wrong with that. be who you are and don't care what others think.
 
im 14 and i told my frnds im bi. i no, it's early and all that but i no i am. same thing with the shritless guy. i no im definitly not gay, ilike girls more than guys but i like guys almost equally. if they dont take it seriously screw them!
 
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