Fallen for my housemate after night of wild sex - what should I do?

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So one night me and my housemate, who I've been friends with for ages, had drunken sex a couple of weeks back. The next time we saw each other we both apologised for our drunken antics but that was in the same room as other people...

We haven't spoken privately about the incident even though we have spent time alone... I guess it's the whole pretend it never happened. Luckily our friendship is going just fine but now I have fallen for him... I find it so hard to bring up should I take the chance and ask him what's going on and if so how? Thanks!
 
offer him a bj and say you will have a threesome if you can be toghether he will love you forever then
 
So, should you let sleeping dogs lie, as you are doing, or wake the beast up and talk about, the Elephant in the room.?
These are awkward moments, and as both of you were drunk, and did, what most likely neither of you would have done sober, you both are feeling guilty. It seems, if you don't bring it up, it's as if it really never happened.
So ask yourself, what will bringing this up, prove, will it serve a purpose, will it bring you closer together, or have any happy outcome?
I think, you shouldn't rock the boat just now. You are starting to fall for him, and your friendship, is going well, so just wait, until, you both are comfortable about talking about what happened that night.
It's not going to go away, but the further you are removed from it, the easier it will be to talk about it.
 
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