Falling in love on the internet!!??? Is it real love or not???

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I have to admit it, im 16 and i have fallin in love with this guy, 18, that i met on the internet about a year ago. Be4 I met him, life was so boring, no dreams plans or goals for my future but once I met him, everything changed. we have seen pic of each other He is always on my mind and i have amazing and romantic dreams and thoughts about us. We always have so much fun chatting and making each other laugh. I always get a weird feeling in my chest, a good feeling and it makes me feel good and really happy like all my troubles just disappear. Sometimes i just go into a daze where all i think about is him and how much he means to me. I really dont care what anyone else thinks but i dunno, i just feel sort of strange about it, I believe that love can happen anywhere, anyplace, and anytime, but isit true? I love him to death and i know i do but a lot of people say that internet love is impossible so do i really love him or is it something else Could someone fall in love with just typing?
 
no u can NOT be in love. First of all, online chatting is not the same as personal experience. People are not like they are online. Plus, u dont even know him. U may think u do, but do u really know the REAL him? U dont know how he reacts to a certain situation, his nasty habits, and MORE! U DONT LOVE HIIM TO DEATH. OKAY? U have to get OUT of this daze right now. Only reality and an actual encounter can determine if u love him. He might even be a 40 year old pervert who used a picture of us SON. Dont do anything u might regret.
 
Ok, so I have actually been in this situation before. I was 15 and he was around 21 I believe. I was in the exact same place you were; I didn't really have any aspirations or anything and chatting with him made me feel better. I became completely infatuated and eventually I confessed to him and he felt somewhat mutual. In the process, I was very hurt though because he also liked someone else and she liked him. I won through though. There was a lot of emotional trauma though. I thought about him all the time and wanted to be with him. So yes, it is possible to like someone just through typing.

However, sometimes when you feel like that, you tend to block out all of their faults. When they are on the other side of a computer and you can't actually see them or hear what they say, you really do not know them very well at all. After a long period of time, like any relationship, I started to get to know him better. It turned out that there were a lot of things that we didn't really agree with and we really didn't fit together altoghther. If we had met in person, I would had probably known this a lot sooner because you can tell through the tone of voice and body language.

It didn't really work out so I broke contact for my own personal safety. I did start getting paranoid that he may not have been who he said he was.
There is a case of these two people I know who met through the internet though. He was from the US and she was from Malaysia. They live together now and are very happy.

So it's up to you. I do advise you however to really make sure that you can trust this person. Over the internet, people are not always as they seem.
 
Forget what other people say about love. Everyone's opinion about love is different. It's your opinion that counts, if you believe it's real, then it is as real as it's going to get.

Saying that though, nothing in life is guaranteed, so always be careful.
 
I went through something pretty similair. Very unexpected b/c I never thought I would invest so much time into talking to someone I don't even know. But for some reason we just really connected. We talked for almost 6 months, and then he got sick of waiting around for me to "take the jump" with him and meet him. And he met some other girl. And it wasnt until then that I realized I obviously cared about him more than I initially thought.

We still talk...and we both know there was something between us.

so whether or not other people understand it, you probably do love hjm in some sort of way. It's not just typing b/c you share everything with each other ya know.

You just need to be very careful. You can be hurt physically...or even emotionally like me lol
its a screwy situation. and I think you just need to be careful, and if you decide to meet each other DO NOT go alone!
good luck!
 
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