Flamers And Gays?

[idu]

So the thing is, Out here in Cali we got two types of Homo's. We got the Gay guys, just normal guys who just happen to be gay but you could never pick them out of a crowd cause they act normal.
Then we got Flamers, who are the girly talking, screamy ones who anyone could pick out on the street cause they always walkin around with overly flamboyant dress.
My question is, who else gets annoyed by them Flamers? I mean isnt it insulting in general to find a person who lives entirely through their sex? Like them Frat boys whos always talking bout the last girl they ****ed?

 

[Jeff]

When I began reading your post, I had planned to be not so nice, but that last comment about the frat boys shows that you aren't really homophobic, just annoyed at people who tout their sexuality in general.

I would have to agree, though I do admit to occassionally indulging in the "flaming fag" aspect of my sexuality. However, this side of me only comes out rarely, and only when I'm around certain people (I.E. not the ones who are annoyed by it).

 

[zqsusie]

Yes, I agree with you. I am not homophobic and I don't think a person should be ashamed of his/her sexuality but I don't want it flaunted in my face by anyone regardless of their sexual preference.

 

[Jennifer]

Well, there are "flamers" who are obsessed with sex and being b*tchy, and there are "flamers" who are just happy chipper gay guys. I like the latter.

 

[thezaylady]

When it comes right down to it, what is it to you? So they're annoying. So these guys can out-girl me with a simple limp-handshake. So what?
There's many different kinds of people who's lifestyle annoy me. Oh well. I could make a big stink and scream at the people who annoy me, "Why do you have to be such a moronic freak?!?"
Or I can leave them alone to their God-given right to be different just as they leave me alone to be my sweet, boring self.
So flamers bug you? Unless they go out of their way to convert you to be like themselves, let them be and leave them alone.