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Message: <blockquote data-quote="TotallyUnexpected" data-source="post: 2511235" data-attributes="member: 857145"><p>stop. How do I? My wife, her best friends, my best friends, my mother, and strangers online all want to vent their aggression/frustration on me but I can't handle it any more. None of them want to solve their problems, they just want to blame other people for their issues and they just want to "get it off their shoulders"; but there's an occupation that was created to "vent your anger" to them and it's called therapy... How do I tell people that I love I no longer want to hear about their problems if they don't want me to try to solve them for them... Watching people struggle is one thing, but watching people struggle and having to hear about it without giving feedback is another; I don't want to do either, but if people aren't going to fix their issues, I'd like to take the lesser of the two evils...</p></blockquote><p></p>