One month ago my cousin told me that our (now deceased) Uncle had a very flirtatious vibe with another woman in his office. I asked her how she knew and she said that our Uncles daughter was working in his office and felt flirtatious vibes. This daughter told my cousin, and the cousin told me in secrecy. I never had intentions of telling anyone.
Well unexpectedly this Uncle of ours who is 44 and an Oral Surgeon just died at his office. He was coming back from a Business trip in San Francisco, and had to stop by the office then was going to go home. His wife (my blood aunt) called him and he didnt answer. She was worried b/c he always picks up his cell phone. Well she went to his office, and saw his truck there, and him inside, and momentarily had just passed away.
Its such a tragic story, b/c they have been married for probably 20 years, and have 5 girls, one off in college and the others are in the age range of 11-15 with one 3 year old.
I was visiting with my dad a few nights ago about how horrible this is, and once we began talking we were saying what if he killed himself. He went to school for 12 years to become an Oral Surgeon and could easily find the right thing to take him out. We were putting pieces together b/c he told me how he heard through close sources that ten years ago they didnt get along too well, and I happened to mention what my cousin told me about the office vibes and he COMPLETELY
thew it all out of proportion.
He told my grandpa that my Uncle had a GIRLFRIEND. I am really pissed off with my dad, however, I dont have the emotions of being hurt/pissed off, im just more so dissapointed for starting this horrible rumor. I dont think he would have cheated b/c they were highly religious and I just dont think he would have done that.
All and all its the last family that anyone ever thought would have any problems b/c they were just so well off.
Well what should I do? Im worried that my grandpa will tell my grandma, and she will tell either the newly widowed aunt of mine, or their other daughter, in which she would tell her sister, then asking about this whole situation. I just dont know what to do. I know I am partially at fault. I feel awful this is ridiculous and im just so embarassed to even be writing a story like this.
please help you guys, I have no one else to talk to about this.
Well unexpectedly this Uncle of ours who is 44 and an Oral Surgeon just died at his office. He was coming back from a Business trip in San Francisco, and had to stop by the office then was going to go home. His wife (my blood aunt) called him and he didnt answer. She was worried b/c he always picks up his cell phone. Well she went to his office, and saw his truck there, and him inside, and momentarily had just passed away.
Its such a tragic story, b/c they have been married for probably 20 years, and have 5 girls, one off in college and the others are in the age range of 11-15 with one 3 year old.
I was visiting with my dad a few nights ago about how horrible this is, and once we began talking we were saying what if he killed himself. He went to school for 12 years to become an Oral Surgeon and could easily find the right thing to take him out. We were putting pieces together b/c he told me how he heard through close sources that ten years ago they didnt get along too well, and I happened to mention what my cousin told me about the office vibes and he COMPLETELY
thew it all out of proportion.
He told my grandpa that my Uncle had a GIRLFRIEND. I am really pissed off with my dad, however, I dont have the emotions of being hurt/pissed off, im just more so dissapointed for starting this horrible rumor. I dont think he would have cheated b/c they were highly religious and I just dont think he would have done that.
All and all its the last family that anyone ever thought would have any problems b/c they were just so well off.
Well what should I do? Im worried that my grandpa will tell my grandma, and she will tell either the newly widowed aunt of mine, or their other daughter, in which she would tell her sister, then asking about this whole situation. I just dont know what to do. I know I am partially at fault. I feel awful this is ridiculous and im just so embarassed to even be writing a story like this.
please help you guys, I have no one else to talk to about this.