Alot of the time, when I am attempting to understand people, I don't get them. Sometimes I wonder to myself whether they are b*tching at me in a rant or paraphrasing my own words when they say stuff, but alot of the time, I don't find myself caring enough. The reason is that I don't really feel that I can express myself honestly with people in teh event that they continue to twist my words to suit their purposes, or to further take advantage of their higher position than me to turn others against me. SOmetimes I feel exasperated because I don't really know what the f*ck they want me to do. Meet up with them? For what? And then when I do, they take back their words and then start accusing me of some sh*t. Or they put me in situations whereby they want me to get in trouble and look bad to the rest of the group by angering me or pushing my buttons, and then try to find other excuses to continue to control or abuse me in some way.
How do you extricate yourself from such BS scenarios? I think that some stuff people do is utter BS. COMPLETE BS.
Sometimes I wonder whether I have an issue with cultural understanding because these people seem to be overly judgmental, gossipy, very clingy and intrusive and downright rude on alot of occasions. BUT they think that nothing is wrong with their behavior. They think that their behavior is considered "caring" but I've only seen such behavior in low and crass minded people with a HIVE like mentality who HATE people different from them.
How do you extricate yourself from such BS scenarios? I think that some stuff people do is utter BS. COMPLETE BS.
Sometimes I wonder whether I have an issue with cultural understanding because these people seem to be overly judgmental, gossipy, very clingy and intrusive and downright rude on alot of occasions. BUT they think that nothing is wrong with their behavior. They think that their behavior is considered "caring" but I've only seen such behavior in low and crass minded people with a HIVE like mentality who HATE people different from them.