one of my lovers old flings saw me online, and told me that my lover is a cheat and a player, and that they recently had been texting one another. I asked my lover and he says hes never cheated, but that yes these guys who he hung out w/ b4 we were together do still text him, but not sexual stuff. My lover says hes tired of these guys causing problems for us so hes having his phone number changed so they cant call or text and he has deleted all his online profiles, and changed his email address, and taken his password off the computer so I can check it if I feel the need. If someone was a player, or cheating would they go to all this trouble?