...I ask for quick meeting? Here is the situation. I met my girlrfriend as a friend last June. We started dating in October. We became official in January. We broke up this weekend over the phone. I asked her why. She said was not happy in our relaitonship lately. I admit I have not been a good boyfriend. I told her that. I have been having some personal issues..a little depression and sleep issues. I have gone to get help for those issues.
I don't think it helped I freaked out on the phone on Saturday night. I was slightly tipsy. I had called her earlier in the night to talk about things. Something didn't feel right. I texted her at 1030 asking her if something was wrong. She said we would talk tomorrow. I assumed, and reasanably so that meant she was planning on breaking up with me, and I wanted to know that night where I was at. I was also hurt she did not talk to me about any issues before, and I felt like crap she would basically break up with me over the phone without discussing the issues. I called her repeatedly because she did not want to talk about the issue that night, but she should have let me know she was having troubles before then or either let me in the dark until the next day, Another reason I freaked out is it was a little out of the blue, and she was still on schedule to meet my DAD the next day. I highly hurt and upset. It was dumb. I should have been calmer, but I felt like crap.
I was ready to cry. I know. Bad move, but I was really hurt she was dropping this on me over the phone.
My biggest problem is she never talked to me about the issues in person. My other big problem is we broke up over the phone. I had known this person since June, and we had been dating since October and been official since January. I had watched her puppy all of the time when she went out of town, did the dishes for her every single time I was there, called her from the grocery store, and went on a road trip two weeks ago to her hometown.
I want to give her space,. but this is also gnawing on me that we have not met in person to finalize things. I don't care if its for 5 minutes. It would make me feel better that I was at least somewhat respected and valued. I feel like total garbage right now.
The other thing is she said she didn't initially want to break up with me,,but when I demanded an answer as to where we were at, she said we were broken up. I was just so distraught and heartbroken because I had no indications anything was majorly wrong. She never brought anything up. I was hoping as a girlfriend she would have addressed those issues with me and not let them simmer
I don't think it helped I freaked out on the phone on Saturday night. I was slightly tipsy. I had called her earlier in the night to talk about things. Something didn't feel right. I texted her at 1030 asking her if something was wrong. She said we would talk tomorrow. I assumed, and reasanably so that meant she was planning on breaking up with me, and I wanted to know that night where I was at. I was also hurt she did not talk to me about any issues before, and I felt like crap she would basically break up with me over the phone without discussing the issues. I called her repeatedly because she did not want to talk about the issue that night, but she should have let me know she was having troubles before then or either let me in the dark until the next day, Another reason I freaked out is it was a little out of the blue, and she was still on schedule to meet my DAD the next day. I highly hurt and upset. It was dumb. I should have been calmer, but I felt like crap.
I was ready to cry. I know. Bad move, but I was really hurt she was dropping this on me over the phone.
My biggest problem is she never talked to me about the issues in person. My other big problem is we broke up over the phone. I had known this person since June, and we had been dating since October and been official since January. I had watched her puppy all of the time when she went out of town, did the dishes for her every single time I was there, called her from the grocery store, and went on a road trip two weeks ago to her hometown.
I want to give her space,. but this is also gnawing on me that we have not met in person to finalize things. I don't care if its for 5 minutes. It would make me feel better that I was at least somewhat respected and valued. I feel like total garbage right now.
The other thing is she said she didn't initially want to break up with me,,but when I demanded an answer as to where we were at, she said we were broken up. I was just so distraught and heartbroken because I had no indications anything was majorly wrong. She never brought anything up. I was hoping as a girlfriend she would have addressed those issues with me and not let them simmer