Girls honestly wich is more important? looks or confidence and humor?

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girls, do average-looking guys saying funny things really work with u? i mean i keep reading these stories online about some average joe talking up a beautiful girl by being confident and saying something funny or witty but does that really work? in the movie or somethin u see some weird lookin ugly dude talking to a rly hot girl and sayin something funny bc hes all confident and he ends up getting her to like him.
now i kno girls like confident guys but be serious, especially for girls my age (im 20), does it matter how confident or funny he is if hes not really hot? be serious.
basicly i wanna kno if i were to walk up to sum cute girl on the street and say hi and say sumthin like 'hey i kno im rly attractive but i was hoping u could look past that and see me for who i m underneath.....still rly attractive' or i dunno sumthin else thats funny do u think i could get her number?

i m just rly shy around pretty girls and dunno waht to say 2 them. is being confident most important?
 
Girls really care more about your personality than looks. Guys care more about the looks.

Be yourself, don't fake to be something you're not. What you want to say, it seems like you are really trying to be funny which comes off as desperate. Just stay chill, compliment her on something she's wearing or how beautiful she is, say you want to get to know her. Ask if she's busy and wants to go out for a cup of coffee or something.
Some shy guys are really cute, but not too shy babe. Just try get a little confidence, be proud of who you are. Try be really corny and cute if she's a nice girl, don't try and get with one of those stuck up girls. I'm sure you'll find someone(:
 
Looks mean absolutely nothing if the guy is obnoxious. If a guy did what you're planning to do to pick up a girl, I would not be interested. Don't be the irritating kind of confident: cocky/conceited. I find that guys are hot not by their looks, but by their personality. If you want to pick a girl up from the street then you could subtly compliment her and ask her about herself. Tell her about yourself too. You can also add a little bit of humor when it's appropriate. Humor is attractive when you're not like those lame guys on TV that come up with stupid pick-up lines; I'm personally not into that. Try having an intellectual conversation if there's time. Be real. Hope this helps :)

P.S. Shyness is kinda cute.
 
this might be hard to believe, looks are great but if there is not personality a guy is worthless. i am a beautiful girl and i have liked gorgeous guys who werent nice to mean beacasue they didnt care about my feelings. they just thought they deserved every girl to be crazy for them and kiss their as*. i notice the not so great looking guys who are sooooo nice to me. i was gonna ask this hot sorta into himself type of guy out, and i ask two not so great looking guy friends what they thought, and they said "if this guy says no to you, he is a total idiot," and some other stuff.
it was one of the nicest things anyone had said to me. so yes humor and confidence go a long way. if a girl doesnt think that, then she is shallow.
 
I seriously dont think that the flirty kind of humor works the same but if you just joke around and make fun of everything (even if its yourself) It does work (or at least in my opinion) being hot doesnt realy matter as long as your nice and funny
 
Sometimes looks go hand in hand with humor and confidence.girls have different viewpoints, but I'll give you my view.when I see a good looking guy,I usually crush on him.the first step I simply have is to be attracted to the guy. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder though. If they act like a jerk to me or other girls, my crush goes away. This is because this means the guy wont treat me right and probably would just be looking to use me. I do like confident guys, but their confidence is not my biggest concern. I am more concerned about the way they treat me and their honesty and kindness. It's okay if they are shy at first, they will warm up. Sometimes the shy are the sweetest. :) and last, with humor, that can be nice but it depends. If the guy has a cute sense of humor that isnt obnoxious or boyish or putting me in it. It has to be at the appropriate time! Sometimes they try too hard it looks desperate and they are trying too hard to impress. Treat her right, be urself, show special interest in her, be a good listener, be a gentleman and be urself. Protect her and treat her like the princess u think she is:)
 
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