Have you always been bisexual or was it more of a transition?

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At first I thought I was gay but I noticed that I couldn't be when I'm also attracted to the laidies too!

I then discovered that the label that suited me more was Bisexual (or possibly pansexual?)
 
I'm kind of confused right now, so I was wondering if you've always felt bi or if your attractions changed over time. If you thought you were possibly straight or gay when you were younger, and then you suddenly started noticing the other gender? Or if you always knew what was going on? Thanks!
 
Ever since the first grade I've had crushes on both males and females. That didn't stop when I reached middle school, or high school, and it didn't stop in my adult years.
 
I think I kind of always known that I was bisexual. It took me a little while to understand it and come to terms with it. Hope that helps =)
 
When I was in elementary school, I started sort of being attracted to girls, but I never admitted it, because that was too young for anything. But once I got into sixth and seventh grade, I started crushing on girls. I think that's when I realized it (sixth grade.) But now, I'm not sure if I'm bisexual or a lesbian. It's sort of hard, sometimes I think I'm in denial.
 
As a child, I always had "crushes" on girls with long, silky hair. But I was raised in a mormon house and was taught that it was a sin to like the same sex. So I became angry and anti-gay. Then, after high school I realized how judgmental my parents were. I became angry with them. When my best friend came out of the closet, I realized that love isn't a sin and I reexamined myself, my beliefs. So I'm bisexual. I'm not angry anymore, not with may parents, not with my life. I like girls and boys. I guess I always knew, but judgment clouded my mind for too much of my life.
 
I am not sure I am bi, but I might be going that way... I think that for me it was a mix between what I have always liked and life experiences... my best friend was a lesbian and I didn't know anything and when she told me I was so surprised then I started thinking that because she was a lesbian I was too, but I was wrong. And then there is the fact that I never liked to play with barbies, I loved racing cars... As of today, I don't feel crazy feminine.. I don't like doing my hair, or my nails... or wearing purses.... or make up... I like 100 % natural, and pockets to carry stuff... I am not lazy, I just don't like any of that stuff all women MUST love... I am just me... And well, I started looking at girls the moment my friend came out to me... yeah...
 
I've always silently thought it, but I did not accept it until a couple years ago, and now I'm totally proud of it.
 
I think ive always just known, I started to think I was bi/lesbian around 4th grade and ya I knew what was going on
 
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