...straight instead? It's like smoking for ten years and one day realizing that it's bad? Why are gays so defensive when a gay question is being ask? Do gays feel so alone in a category by themselves that they want others to join them, that's why they have gay parades etc? Why do men who decide to get sex change called transexuals and not gay? Why do gay men to act like a woman? Why do gay women try to act like a man. Why not be yourselves and still be gay? Are gays hyprocrites for trying to act like they are the opposite sex eg. dressing like a man or woman, talking like a man or woman etc. Why do gays think that they are trying to balance the worlds population by being gays. Do all straight people decide to have kids? Do some people turn gay because of the opposite sex being abusive, cheating,dishonesty etc. Is being gay an excuse? Is a cross dresser gay? Is he or she undecisive on what they want to be?