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<blockquote data-quote="LindaC" data-source="post: 2541992" data-attributes="member: 217188">to women on Eharmony? We broke up after 3 years dating because he told me he wouldn&#039;t marry me. I left his city 3 weeks ago and began to start a new life. He thought for sure I loved him so much that I would never leave, but I did. At first I felt very good. But soon he began to email me a lot and for the 3 times we talked on the phone, he was crying all the time saying he truly loves me so much and misses me. He kept asking me to go back saying he couldn&#039;t stand it anymore. I fell for his tears and even began to doubt if I made the right choice by leaving him.Today we talked about the past and all of a sudden he blew out and said all these nasty things about me, just like when we were together when we were fighting. When I asked him if he is seeing other women, he said he hasn&#039;t seen anyone yet but he is on the dating site, when I asked him if he would keep doing that he said yes. I said &quot;you don&#039;t ask someone to come back and say you love her and see other women, people just don&#039;t do that.&quot; He said &quot;things are so uncertain with you why should I put all my eggs in one busket?&quot; he also said &quot;so what, you want me to lock myself up and jerk off everynight by myself?&quot; He said &quot;I want you to come back for my own selfish reason, but things probably wont work out&quot;I fell for his sadness and crying, but now I feel so insulted and deceived. How can someone say something complete opposite to what they are doing</blockquote>

[QUOTE="LindaC, post: 2541992, member: 217188"] to women on Eharmony? We broke up after 3 years dating because he told me he wouldn't marry me. I left his city 3 weeks ago and began to start a new life. He thought for sure I loved him so much that I would never leave, but I did. At first I felt very good. But soon he began to email me a lot and for the 3 times we talked on the phone, he was crying all the time saying he truly loves me so much and misses me. He kept asking me to go back saying he couldn't stand it anymore. I fell for his tears and even began to doubt if I made the right choice by leaving him. Today we talked about the past and all of a sudden he blew out and said all these nasty things about me, just like when we were together when we were fighting. When I asked him if he is seeing other women, he said he hasn't seen anyone yet but he is on the dating site, when I asked him if he would keep doing that he said yes. I said "you don't ask someone to come back and say you love her and see other women, people just don't do that." He said "things are so uncertain with you why should I put all my eggs in one busket?" he also said "so what, you want me to lock myself up and jerk off everynight by myself?" He said "I want you to come back for my own selfish reason, but things probably wont work out" I fell for his sadness and crying, but now I feel so insulted and deceived. How can someone say something complete opposite to what they are doing [/QUOTE]

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