Help! My dad pops in my head when my BF gives me Oral sex?

[ThecatgirlM]

Has anyone ever had this problem? Maybe with a mother, sibling, whatever. Its really messing me up and I cant relax around my bf anymore.

Ive never had a sexually or emotionally absuive relationship with my dad. He get more annoying as we get older, but all parents do. My dad acts like somewhat of a pervert from time to time. i think because im 28 he thinks he can get away woth perverted things, but it bugs me.
I dont feel an attraction to him. When my bf gives me oral and my dad pops up, I get really mad and turned off. Ive noticed nc of this im being more hostile to my dad.

Im too embarrassed to seek cousilling or help. I just wanna know if youve been thru it, and what did you do to make it better?
This happens everytime, even with masturbation.

 

[PauloD1]

Can you add additional information? How often does this happen?

When i stayed at home my mum often walked in when i was having sex with a girlfriend but i really did not think she meant it, you should maybe speak to your dad and tell him to knock from now on when he walks in to your room! Does he stay for long when he does pop in or does he say sorry and look embarrassed?

Wow, i cannot believe his comes in when masturbating too, does he stay for a minute or so and watch or disappear straight away?